Sometimes, people consider that they truly understand the person they love, only to uncover surprising truths that change everything. In this article we will share real-life experiences of people who sufferd from unsettling revelations about someone they trusted deeply.
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After we already had two kids, and I told her I didn’t want any more, she got pregnant by another man and tried to pass it off as mine.
I didn’t believe her, got a DNA test, and was right. Yet, for some reason, I’m the every-other-weekend parent—through no fault of my own. © disturbednadir / Reddit
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My ex has very low self-confidence, and he tries so hard to be someone he’s not. He talks arrogantly and is a liar. He doesn’t know that I know he has a Yahoo Answers account where he pours his heart out in the dating section. He always says it’s the women’s fault that they cannot handle his attractiveness.
There are about 50 posts about each woman he tried so hard to have a relationship with but failed. He won’t accept the truth that he’s the one with emotional issues. © jaxpica / Reddit
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We were driving home from a dinner, where we had driven separately. Without realizing it, she cut me off by merging into my lane at the last minute without using a blinker. I was annoyed at first, but when I recognized it was her car, it made me feel very strange. © iDoNotDegree / Reddit
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My ex made up a person and spoke to me as them. We met when we were quite young and were both pretty weird. I put it down to insecurity and wanting to look like she had cool friends (I was a little older). I never let on that I knew because it would have been super embarrassing for her, and this was literally the start of the relationship.
She made up quite a few stories about this guy, and I got a few emails from “him.” She didn’t realize that changing the name of the account didn’t actually change the address, which was fully visible. © Unknown author / Reddit
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I was just out of high school and dating a girl. We were fairly serious but still young. We went to Subway for lunch, and she was super rude to the poor girl working behind the counter. After we left, she kept saying how stupid she was and that she couldn’t even make the sandwich right.
I started to notice she was rude to a lot of service and retail workers. I saw her in a much different light after that. We didn’t last too long. © poridgepants / Reddit
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Seven years in, I found out he was a high school dropout without even a GED. He had initially told me he was a game design major and had turned down a job opportunity (or internship, I can’t recall which) with EA Toronto because he didn’t want to leave me.
I literally told him, “GO! We can figure other things out later—this won’t wait.”
I should’ve known then. Ugh, love is blind, but only for so long. © Ann_Slanders / Reddit
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My (soon-to-be) ex-wife met another guy about a year and a half ago. She was so bad at hiding it that I thought she WANTED to get caught—posting romantic stuff on her Instagram when we hadn’t been romantic in a long time. I confronted her; she lied, even with solid evidence. A few months later, stuff started disappearing from the house—pretty obvious that she was moving out.
Then we started having no money every month (and I have a pretty okay job). I realized she was stealing money, basically by paying her bills twice a month with 3–4 times the minimum payment and not paying mine. I let it go on for a bit and finally confronted her; she didn’t admit to it.
I finally just pulled my check from our joint account, and she said she was leaving but was going to be homeless. The next day, she had changed her Facebook back to her maiden name and had a picture of her and the other guy at their new place. © arentyouangel / Reddit
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Her email and Facebook stayed logged in on my laptop for months without her knowing, somehow. Over that time, I watched as she talked, in intimate detail, about che:ating with her ex or another guy or two. I always questioned her but never presented that evidence, and she somehow always argued me into submission. I don’t know how I justified it then, but I sure as hell wouldn’t in the future. © djdadi / Reddit
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When we married, my wife wanted my daughter’s dog gone. I refused—it helped her cope with her mom’s death. My wife said, “So you chose a dog over me?!” We had a big fight and she left. She moved out that evening.
2 days later, the dog vanished. That same night, my child received a box. She found it on the porch, wrapped in nice gift paper with her name on it. She suddenly started screaming. Inside was her dog’s red collar, along with a note: “Your dad made a big mistake.”
I immediately called my wife, and she admitted to taking the dog to a shelter. I begged her for the name, but she refused. It wasn’t until I threatened her with divorce that she finally gave it to me. I rushed to the shelter, found the dog, and brought him home.
But there was no way I was staying married to that woman for another day. I filed for divorce immediately. Never had I imagined she could be so cruel. She had always seemed kind and compassionate, but maybe I had married too quickly to truly see who she was.
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My ex was always very secretive and a little paranoid. One example: I learned about 15 years into the relationship that his birthday wasn’t in May like he had said, but in November. When he moved to the U.S. from England in the 1970s, they had written it down incorrectly in his passport, and he never changed it to his correct birthdate. I still don’t know why. © GorditoCat / Reddit
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