It’s so cliched to think that having s3x with a guy too soon is what will make him lose respect for you. Honestly, there are many other, more damaging things in a relationship that will make him not only lose his attraction for you, but also his respect. If you’re guilty of any of the following, stop now for your own sake
1. You agree with everything he says
It is really rare to find a person who resembles our way of thinking to that level that we’re simply nodding all the time, without even listening to them anymore. It is practically impossible to agree with everything he says if you have your own opinions.
And if you never interrupt him or say that you don’t agree with him, he will label you as someone who doesn’t have their own opinions and he will lose respect for you. Don’t be afraid to say what you really mean and contradict him if necessary because these are the indicators that you have your own opinions and that you don’t care if he disagrees.
It means you’re confident in yourself and you don’t just nod to everything he says to you.
2. You don’t have boundaries
If he says something that annoys you or if he hurts your feelings voluntarily and you’re not letting him know, he will think that you’re too tolerant and he will know that he can do whatever he wants with you.
And that is when you lose respect from him.
Always have boundaries and stick to them. Don’t tolerate his bullshit only because you like him and you want to be the best for him.
3. You are too nice
Maybe you’re a cool person who gives the benefit of the doubt and doesn’t go out of her way to hurt anyone, but being too nice and sweet all the time starts to become annoying. Throwing sugar at guys shows them your niceness isn’t anything valuable. If it was, it wouldn’t be for free.
4. You’re making him your only priority
If you’re always there for him and you always try hard to surprise him and show your affection, he will know that he’s your only priority and it will make him lose respect for you.
You can never be 100% devoted to one thing that makes you happy because it’s not healthy.
You have to find a way to balance your love life with your friends and family and you should never only stick to one thing because that way you’re neglecting others who are equally important to be treated the same way.
