You are most likely get deceived that you are the main chick in a relationship whereas your the side chick.
Some men have mastered the art of cheating and would always wrap you into the world of fake promises and alternative truths.
But, the signs that your man has another woman and is actually the main are pretty recognizable just if you don’t ignore them.
Here are some of the signs that you are the side chick and not the main.
1. You have low expectations
You’re impressed when he does something as small as wish you a good night. That’s a problem! Your expectations should be higher than that, and they would if you weren’t his side chick. But, he’s set the bar low… very low. And because of that, all he has to do is respond to your texts and you feel butterflies.
2. He wants you off his phone
This has been a super hot issue since long ago. Generally, there are several opinions that argue couple should feel free to share each other’s phones, passwords, gadgets and privacy while others oppose.
However, some would pretend to be nice and give you there phones but that’s after they’ve deleted call history and all messages and blocked a couple of numbers.
Another sign is if the partner keeps changing passwords frequently and guards his phone 24/7 like a nuclear code.
Without doubts you are a side chick in the relationship.
3. He leaves right after s_ex
He doesn’t stay and talk after s_ex. And there’s absolutely no snuggling. The second he’s done, he gets dressed and leaves without a second thought. Do you want to know why he’s in such a rush? Two possibilities. Either he needs to get back to his girlfriend or he doesn’t want to spend the night with you. Which one’s worse?
4. He’s always ‘busy‘
Once you’re a side chick, he will always find excuses just to avoid spending special moments with you.
One of the biggest indication of you are not the main chick is when he avoids walking alongside your on the road or refuses attend celebratory ceremonies like Christmas and valentines with you.
If he has another woman, the main chick, he will always look for excuses to snub you that day.
Here you’ll understand that he has more efforts on the other woman than you.
5. He’s secretive
You don’t know anything about him. Does he have siblings? Is he unemployed? Does he own a home? You have no idea and not for lack of trying. You’ve asked questions, he just never answers. Instead of letting you in, he keeps you at arm’s length. He’s not looking at you in a long-term girlfriend kind of way, so why would he tell you his secrets?
6. You only see him at night
Do you only see him after the sun goes down? That’s a pretty clear sign you’re his side chick. If you were someone he actually liked, he’d make time for you during the day. Whether that was taking you to brunch on Sunday or hitting up a farmer’s market. Your meet-ups wouldn’t be restricted to after-hour events.
7. He’s stingy with money
You’ve been “seeing” each other for a while now, and he’s spent a total of $0 on you. Makes sense. Guys with side chicks don’t usually have the budget to treat every one of their ladies. And unfortunately, you didn’t make the cut. He’s got to cut costs somewhere, which explains why you’re always the one paying for Postmates.
