Every woman’s dream in a relationship is to have a man all to herself. No woman wants to share her husband with another woman.
One trendy way to end a relationship is to have a boyfriend called a “chick”. The name “chick” comes from the fact that these women are not the main girlfriends or wives of the men they date. Surprisingly, some of these sidekicks are aware and comfortable with their position in the relationship.
Here’s how to keep your home free of side chicks
1. Learn his love Language
Men have love languages, some men may appreciate gifts more than attention, while others appreciate space more than attention. Knowing your husband’s love language will go a long way in keeping him to yourself.
2. Don’t be obsessive
Trying to be too clingy or obsessive can turn your guy off. Women who are obsessed with their husbands can end up losing them. Learn to give him space from time to time, especially when he asks for it.
3. Be Better; Not jealous
When you notice that your husband is keeping side chicks, it is not the best time to start showing your jealousy even though it hurts. You should work towards becoming better and finding ways to attract your man. Be better in attitude and every other way that could affect him.
4. Keep communication alive
The key to any relationship is communication. When a man and a woman communicate effectively, the time they spend together becomes closer. Even though they are far apart, communication will keep them together.
5. Experiment
One way to keep a relationship is by having hєαlthч sєхuαl íntєrcσursє. Try experimenting with ѕєχυαℓ ѕтуℓєѕ with your man. Don’t starve him of ѕєχ. Little issues couples have inside the bedroom are due to unsαtísfíєd sєхuαl lífє.
And this can lead men to start looking outside for satisfaction and start keeping side chicks.
6. Regular Dates
Going on a date should not be an occasional event or should not stop during courtship. Regular dates will make your husband draw closer to you and share beautiful moments with you. Trust me your husband will no longer have time for side chicks if he always spends quality time with you.
7. Be the best friend
Most men who chєαt do so out of frustration and because they have no one to trust. So, one way to clear his head is to date a side girl.
Your husband should be your best friend, he can open up to you and share his thoughts and problems with you instead of looking for a side chick.
8. Don’t make him vulnerable to side chicks
Interestingly, most women push their husbands into getting side chicks. If you find out that your husband is cheating on you, that is not the right time to start putting out an attitude. Instead, you find ways to bring him back home and keep him from ¢нєαтιиg.
References: gh.opera.news, naijaphobia.com.ng
