You know your world would fall apart without him, but does he feel the same way?
Guys aren’t the most forthcoming with their feelings, which is a shame since most women would love to be reassured from time to time, especially on the subject of commitment.
So we’ve put together 8 signs that he’s seriously afraid of losing you.
1. He always finds time to be with you
If your man has no problem canceling all of his other plans just to be with you, you have him hook, line, and sinker — he is afraid of losing you.
He is often the one to initiate dates and no one can stop him from showing at your door in the middle of the night. Of course, he is only a human being, so some circumstances make this hardly possible.
But if he truly values you, he will always make you a priority of his. Also, you will never feel that you smother him because he always enjoys your company.
2. He gives you gifts for no apparent reason
A man in love is a man who’s willing to give his all — at any moment.
Because he fears a break-up, he often surprises you with small gifts for just any random occasion. It’s his way of showing how much you mean to him.
And let’s be honest: receiving gifts now and then makes us feel very special, eh?
He has put so much thought into them. There is nothing more beautiful in his world than seeing a smile on your face and being the one who caused it.
These gifts can be seen as acts of service. While this is a love language for both men and women, for men it often ties into their desire to be needed.
3. He avoids any form of a fight with you
When a man fears losing you, he will do everything he can to avoid fighting.
He thinks that losing you is the worst thing that could happen to him so he will never risk it happening.
Even if he doesn’t agree with something you’re saying, he will back down a bit and won’t make a fight out of it because he doesn’t want to make you feel disrespected.
He doesn’t raise his voice nor does he use harsh words that might hurt you.
4. He cares about how you feel
With him, you feel safe. And your heart can feel it deeply too.
He treats your feelings like a fragile treasure. He isn’t rash and he is prudent when it comes to matters that concern you. He will never get back at you even when he is upset.
When he knows the things that hurt you, he will do his best to avoid those. You and your feelings matter to him.
5. He meets your every need.
Most men don’t think that the needs of women are rational, so they choose which ones they will respect and which not. But when he is scared of losing, he tender to almost all your needs. He will put your well-being first. He will make sure he spoils and pampers you because he enjoys seeing a smile on your face. When you notice this sudden behavior, it means he is afraid of losing you and he wants to keep you close to his side at all times.
6. He wants to meet all of your needs
When a guy fears losing you, he strives to help make all your dreams come true.
He goes the extra mile and does things he doesn’t normally do just to satisfy your needs. Making you stay with him is his top priority and he will be ready to do anything in his power to make you do.
Most importantly, he will never question the rationality of your dreams. He will respect you and just simply help you achieve those.
He won’t think twice about painting the town green if that’s what makes you happy.
7. He tends to be jealous.
Frankly speaking, when a man is scared of losing you, he will be jealous when he sees other guy around you. On the other hand, when a man is not afraid of losing you, he couldn’t care less if you fall in love with someone else. So, I guess that the total absence of jealousy can be tricky, as well.
8. He pictures your future together
When a man wants to be with you for the long-term, he plans for the future — with you in it.
Don’t be surprised if you find yourself, in the middle of the night, discussing with him about travel destinations, countries to move and settle in, marriage locations, or even children’s names.
He already imagines your future together so vividly and he wants to make sure that it turns out the way he has pictured it would. And he doesn’t want these musings to end, so he constantly brings up the topic of your future together at any moment.
If you have this guy, tell him how much you want to be with him in that future too.
Sources: ng.opera.news, loveconnection.org
