There are times when you do a lot of things for other people, you have given a lot and taken care of the relationship between you and them but they’ve never ever paid any attention at all.
You keep giving, keep scarifying, and hope that one day they can feel what you have done for them.
Until you get so tired and exhausted from your hopeless effort, then you let go. That’s when you completely got no hope for your relationship at that time. That’s when you get hurt a lot.
But it is also when they realized what you have done for them. Because in the past, they had taken it for granted, and those were not worth paying attention to.
That’s also when they lost you, lost the relationship between you and them. Because your pain and tiredness inside you make you continue the relationship no more.