They say nothing lasts forever, and this often applies to love as well. The reality is that people in relationships often stop working on it; they forget that falling in love with their partner is an everyday occurrence, not just when they were looking for them. You don’t have to feel bad if you feel all this.
Heartbreak and falling out of love are real, and you can’t do anything about the feelings you have. Love often ends with the train stopping at some lonely station, where it dies. It’s sad, yes, but that’s how it is.
1. STOP APPEARING IN YOUR DREAMS AND PLANS
From one moment to the next, that man is no longer in your plans; you feel like your dreams will be happier without him by your side.
2. WHEN YOU WAKE UP, THERE’S NO MORE SPARK
You go from waking up and looking at him with love, waking him up with a kiss, a smile, and a good morning, to simply feeling annoyed by the daily grind, hoping the day would be over soon.
3. YOU DON’T MISS HIM AND YOU FEEL BETTER ALONE
You reach the point where you feel calmer and more complete when you’re without him. You no longer miss him or think about him in his absence.
4. YOU DON’T ENJOY MEALS WITH HIM ANYMORE
What happens during a meal between a couple says a lot. You went from enjoying the preparation to eating with good conversation and laughter; now it’s boring and lacking in topics of conversation.
5. YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DON’T NEED HIM ANYMORE
You start doing more things without him and realize that you enjoy them just as much, if not more, than when he’s with you. You’ve realized that you’re happier without him.
6. YOU DON’T CARE ABOUT HIM ANYMORE
It’s not that you’re selfish or a bad person; it’s just that you subconsciously don’t think about him anymore, and therefore, you don’t care about him anymore.
7. YOU DON’T FEEL ANYTHING WHEN YOU SAY GOODBYE
Before, it hurt to say goodbye to him for a few days; now, you feel indifferent and it doesn’t affect you. At times, you’re even happy that he’s leaving.
8. YOU START THINK ABOUT A NEW LOVE
You start thinking about feeling again what you felt for your partner in the beginning, feeling those butterflies in your stomach. Experiencing all that again, but with someone else.
