To legitimize the pregnancy, I agreed to marry a construction worker. When the child was 3 years old, I was shocked to find it in my husband’s wallet. Now I understand why he agreed to marry me…
I HAD A MASON TO BRING THE CHILD INTO MY Womb — BUT AFTER 3 YEARS, I ALMOST HELD MY BREATH WHEN I SEEN THIS ON MY HUSBAND’S WALLET. AND ONLY NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY HE MARRIED ME THERE.
I am Lara, 29 years old, working as a salesperson in a small grocery store in Quezon City.
Four years have passed since the most painful moment of my life happened — the man I loved the most left me, right when I found out I was pregnant.
At the time, I was just a fourth-year college student. I was in love with Ramon, an office worker, five years older than me. Sweet, eloquent, and a flirt.
I gave him all my trust, until one day, two lines appeared on the pregnancy test.
I texted him trembling, and his only response was:
“I’m sorry, Lara. I’m not ready to be a father yet. You’re on your own.”
My world collapsed. I cried for several nights. I knew my parents, both farmers in Pangasinan, wouldn’t be able to handle it if they found out I got pregnant out of wedlock.
Amidst my fear and shame, Tonyo arrived — a mason working on a house under construction near the room I was renting.
He was quiet, brown-skinned, and muscular. One day, I fainted in front of the boarding house, and he was the one who took me to the health center. He didn’t ask questions, nor did he judge.
When he learned of my situation, he simply said:
“If you have no one to run to, Lara, I can stand up for you. So that the child will have a father when he comes out.”
I had no love before — only gratitude. But I agreed.
I wanted my child to be born with a last name, without my parents being ashamed.
Our wedding was simple — no gown, no photos, just a reception in a small house made of tin.
Many said I had married the wrong person: “Just a mason? No future?”
But I kept quiet.
Because in the midst of all that, he was the only one who gave me dignity.
Tonyo worked day and night. He would come home covered in dust, with sore hands, but when he saw me vomiting, he would quickly buy calamansi and biscuits.
And when I gave birth to Anna, my daughter, he was the first to cry.
“From now on, my child, I am your father,” he said as he hugged the baby. “I will take care of you and your mother.”
Slowly, our lives improved. Tonyo, even though he was tired, saved up so I could open a small sari-sari store in Caloocan.
He wasn’t good at sweet words, but every morning, there was milk ready for me before I went in.
Little by little, I learned to love him.
Until one afternoon in May, while I was doing laundry, his wallet fell to the floor.
I picked it up to return it. But there was an old photo inside.
I took it, and almost dropped it when I saw what it was.
A woman, still young, holding a baby in front of a shack.
On the back of the photo, there was writing in a ballpoint pen:
“For you — the father of my child.”
My world seemed to spin.
Did that mean he already had a child? Did he hide something from his past?
When he got home, I put the photo on the table.
“Tonyo, explain.”
He was silent for a long time. Then, he sat down, holding his head.
“Lara,” he said calmly, “before I met you, I loved a woman in the province. She got pregnant, but her family forbade us. She left without saying goodbye. All I left was a photo.”
She swallowed hard, fighting back tears.
“I looked for them then, but I couldn’t find them. A few years later, I heard that she had died in an accident, and that a relative had taken the child. That’s how I hid it. I couldn’t throw the photo away. It was as if a part of my heart had been left in that photo.”
I was silent. For the first time, I understood the depth of his eyes — the weight he had been carrying for so long.
“Then,” I asked, “why did you marry me, when I was pregnant with someone else’s child?”
He smiled, sad but true:
“Because I know how painful it is to lose a child. And I don’t want you to experience that. I want you to have someone to take care of him. And most of all… I loved you.”
And that’s when I cried — not out of pity, but out of the shame and admiration I felt at the same time.
For three years, he didn’t force me to love him, he didn’t scold me.
He just loved quietly, tired himself out, made himself human.
I held his hand and said:
“Thank you, Tonyo. Thank you for coming — even though it’s late.”
He smiled, as he always did.
“It’s not too late, Lara. As long as the three of us are still together, there’s still hope.”
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The next day, I put the old photo back in his wallet — in the same place.
But I added another: the new photo of the three of us — me, him, and Anna, smiling in the sun.
Because I knew the past was nothing to be ashamed of.
This was the reason he became a person who knew how to love completely, without any compensation.
I married him so that my son could be born with dignity —
But in the end, he was the one who taught me what it really means to be dignified, strong, and truly loved
