Lipstick marks on his collar. The smell of strange perfume on his clothes. One side of a pair of earrings mysteriously appearing on the car seat. These are the classic signs of a c-h-e-a-t-i-n-g husband that we’ve come to learn of from one too many soap operas.
However, men aren’t the only ones susceptible to extramarital affairs. Most affairs start innocently enough with a seemingly harmless attraction to another party, and both men and women often find themselves blindsided when it’s too late.
There are quite a few gestures as well as verbal trademarks which can show us whether a person is lying or not. They are also approved and developed by psychologists who have devoted some time studying the matter.
1. The first sign of c-h-e-a-t-i-n-g is when your husband/wife get emotionally detached, gets all sorts of mood swings and is often depressed around you.
2. The second evident sign is that the spouse who is being unfaithful is showing signs of anger, criticism or even high cruelty.
3.Control, control,control.Number 3 on the list is the so-called “controlling” when the unfaithful spouse tends to nag that the other is all about control, in reality, it’s the opposite, he is the one tending to be on top of things.
4. Number 4 is work. Long hours at the office, a bunch of conference calls, meetings business trips and even work in another town for a longer period of time. Sound familiar, ladies?
5. Oh, what’s with the questions? He gets super defensive when caught off guard and asked a question that was a complete surprise.
6. He looks good! Number 6 is his sudden improvement in style, surprising shopping sprees, a gym membership card? Quite the stud, huh? What is that about?
7. Another sign is the sudden adrenaline rush he has been showing. He is full of energy, outgoing, always up for new things. Not the right time to become an athlete dear!
8. One of the cruelest and saddest reasons of infidelity is the illness of a spouse. A survey has shown that more than 50% of the participants have c-h-e-a-t-e-d on their sick, faithful spouse. Really guys?
9. This one probably sounds cliché but is a definite indicator of an extramarital action-the c-h-e-a-t-i-n-g spouse is becoming more flirtatious with the opposite s-e-x.
10. He needs some privacy! As our last sign is him/her staying up later at night with the excuse of working on the computer.Busy, busy buddy.
Relationships can go way wrong. Differences in characters, loss of love, lust, passion, and patience or even one of the two playing a double game are the main reasons for failure in basically every broken relationship in the world.
Source: touch.org.sg, keepyourbody.com
