Somebody could be beautiful, funny, a pleasure to be around, and even be active in their church but still not be good marriage material. A few relational “infections” can all but erase many good qualities.
Put it this way: a gregarious guy could be a lot of fun to have in the dugout of a baseball team, but if he can’t hit, throw, or catch a baseball he’d be a poor choice to join your team. In the same way, someone could be wonderful in the context of dating and still be sorely lacking when it comes to the “game time” issues of marriage.
I’ve seen the following 7 major character weaknesses become significant hurdles for marital intimacy and satisfaction and even take down some marriages. Here are the types of people who aren’t marriage material – Check out in which category your partner falls.
1. Egoistic
The person who is full of ego will always want their partner to do good but not better than them. If your partner is too full of himself or herself than don’t wait for the compliments and love because it’s never gonna come your way.
2. The Controller
Frankly if you’re planning to marry a person who controls you all the time then you’re losing your life entirely. Yes and trust me you will always feel like a puppet and you’ll never live a life the way you want to.
3. Escaper
Do you think you’re with a person who is an expert in escaping? Suppose a trouble knocks on your door and your partner disappears at that very moment; what are you going to do? And suppose it’s not one time but literally every time.
Well, if your partner is not ready to stand with you during difficult situations than it’s not meant to be.
4. Flirtatious
We all flirt but if you already have an idea that your partner is literally an expert in flirting then why ruin your life. It is quite obvious that you definitely don’t want your partner to cheat on you.
5. Clingy
It is a good thing if your partner is obsessed with you but too much obsession will result into irritation. If your partner is already showing signs about being with you for like 24/7 then it’s quite obvious you’ll lose your personal space.
6. Not Compromising
Every relationship needs a certain sort of compromise. Right? But if the one you’re planning to get married to is not ready for compromises then you’re making it hard on yourself.
7. The Judgemental Freak
If your partner is constantly hurting you by judging each and everything that you do then it’s time to end a relationship. Frankly you’ll never be a happy person if you marry someone who continuously judges you.
If you’re someone who can deal with these things then you’re all good to go ahead. But once again don’t miss these marriage material warning signs.
References: youngisthan.in, focusonthefamily.ca
