Is your man giving you mixed signals? You think he might love you, but for some reason, he appears hesitant about it?
When it comes to dealing with men and their complicated behavior, it can be tough to understand what they’re truly thinking. After all, sometimes a man is cold BECAUSE they love you, and other times they’re cold BECAUSE they just don’t like you. However, when you research and understand male psychology, it’s not as complicated as you might think.
So in this article, I thought we’d go over tried and true ways to figure out exactly how he is truly feeling.
1. You catch him staring at you when he thinks that you’re looking away. He just can’t help but look at you. He loves looking at you. He wants to be able to take in your beauty with his eyes. He wants to absorb every single part of how you look. You’re his literal eye candy.
2. He tells you about how he was hurt in the past by a girl he really loved and that he fears that it might happen again in the future. He does it to let you see that he has fears. He is vulnerable around you, and he would never be like that around anyone.
3. Whenever you guys have ѕєχ, he doesn’t just get up and leave right away. He sticks around for a bit to engage in pillow talk with you. He cuddles with you. He wraps you in his embrace. He doesn’t just treat you like some ѕєχυαℓ object that he can discard once he’s through with you.
4. Although he doesn’t call you his girlfriend, he acts like you are his girlfriend. Even people who see you think of you as a couple. That is because his feelings for you are real.
5. He gets really uncomfortable whenever you start to try to define the relationship because he hasn’t really given much thought to how he feels just yet. It’s not that he doesn’t have feelings for you. HE probably does. Otherwise, why would he be with you? It’s just that he’s still trying to navigate his way through his feelings. And he doesn’t exactly know what to tell you just yet.
6. He isn’t really the talky type. He’s not going to tell you outright that he likes you. He might not even realize it for himself that he’s already super into you. So, you can’t really blame him for not being verbally affectionate towards you. But you can always tell that he likes you based on the way he acts when he’s around you. He will always be able to prove his loyalty and commitment to you in the form of real actions.
7. When you are locked in a deep stare with one another, he’s going to look intently into your eyes. He’s going to want to gaze deep into your soul. He’s going to want to see the person underneath it all by looking straight into your eyes. And once he feels like things are getting a little too deep, real, and intense between the two of you. He’s going to break eye contact. And he’s only going to break it because the intensity of his feelings scared him a little bit.
8. Sure, he might be keeping quiet about how he feels about you. But that doesn’t mean that he hasn’t told his friends that he likes you. So, if your friends are taking it upon themselves to tell you that he’s really serious about you, then you should believe them. Just be patient and he’s eventually going to muster up the courage to tell you himself.
9. He tells you that he isn’t exactly looking for anything serious, but the truth is that he is. And he’s already acting super serious with you.
10. He’s going to act really affectionate with you whenever it’s just the two of you. He’s going to hug you and kiss you. He’s going to hold your hand. But don’t be surprised if he’s going to distance himself a little bit from you when you’re in public. It’s just his way of maintaining boundaries.
11. He evidently gets jealous whenever you start getting close to another guy. He knows that he doesn’t have ownership of you, but it doesn’t keep him from acting protective and territorial.
