Sometimes, it’s not how you say it; it’s what you say. There are some things that you should never say to your girlfriend. Now, I’m not advising that you inhibit your freedom of speech or that you walk on eggshells around your spouse. Relationships should be full of communication, loving and fun. However, there are some things that might be mean and cause unnecessary tension. So to avoid that, we’ve compiled a list of things that you should never say to your girlfriend
1. “My ex used to like this”
Yes! This is one of the vital among ‘Things Not Say To Girlfriend’ list. Alright, so what makes you think she is at any point interested in knowing what your ex used to like? Moreover, it makes her feel like she is just a rebound.
2. “You’re too emotional”
You just stomped all over her feelings. It could be several reasons why she’s acting out the way she is. You can use tactful ways of ascertaining the reason. This should not be said in an argument/disagreement. Anything along the lines of “You’re overreacting” or indicating it’s her time of the month in an argument will make things worse. Try to be considerate of her feelings. Picture your favorite football team just lost the championships and you get emotional, how would you want your woman to console you?
3. “That dress makes you look fat”
HOW COULD YOU? Every guy in this world knows that telling your girlfriend that she looks fat is a huge mistake. No matter how strong your relationship is, you are not allowed to say that.
4. “Gosh, she’s beautiful/hot”
Especially if you’re rarely told your girlfriend that she’s beautiful and you say this often of other females. It’s even worse if you say this while your eyes are locked on that female. In some cases, it might be said innocently but it will impact your spouse negatively. Your spouse will feel at ill ease and question your appreciation of her worth. She might not feel so special to you. Tables turned, how would you feel?
5. “I forgot to see your messages.”
Really? If you actually forgot to see her texts, you’re not supposed to tell her like this. Also, you can’t simply ignore your girlfriend’s messages at all.
6. “Are you finished now?”
You’re having a dispute and it might seem she’s talking for minutes on end. She’s talking because she has something to say that’s important to her. Don’t cut her short. Don’t come off as rude. Find ways to interject that promote a healthy conversation.
7. “I am going to have wild fun at the party tonight”
Why would you tell your girlfriend about any of your plans at a party? Either you want her to be upset or you want her to go with you because my friend, nothing else happens in such cases.
8. “His girlfriend is so cool”
His girlfriend is cool and what about yours? You think she is a vicious bitch who has been dominating you. If not, then don’t ever say that someone else’s girlfriend is cool or just add ‘like you’ in the end.
9. “You have too much make-up on”
She made up herself for you. This is a territory that most men do not understand. Should you really have an issue with her make-up, say it in a way that speaks to her being beautiful naturally.
10. Disrespecting her family
Any statement that shows imprudence for the people she loves most is something that shouldn’t be said. Many females are super close to their families. Being in a relationship with her means showing respect for her family even if you don’t like them.
11. Anything that refers to her body negatively
You might think it’s constructive criticism but it might come off to your spouse that you really don’t like her body. This might fester in her mind and be particularly toxic to the relationship. She might not feel as ѕєχу and begin to feel self-conscious in bed. Research has shown that majority of women dislike their bodies. You’re just adding fuel to fire when you speak about her body in a not so nice way. Find ways that show care/concern for your partner. If you realize she’s overweight, don’t say “You’re fat”, try instead “let’s change our diet or go to the gym together”. Your words should demonstrate genuine care and not just criticize.
Follow these tips and tricks to stay forever happy ! Do you too know Things Not Say To Girlfriend? Then let us know in comments below.
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