8 sure signs your partner doesn’t care about you anymore
1. Their Phone Is Their Substitute
They are almost always using their phone now, whether you are trying to talk to them or not. It is as if they are doing it to ignore you, to not have to listen to you and to avoid having to reply to what you just said; it is like you don’t matter anymore. They take up this insulting behavior and it does not change even after you have confronted them about it.
2. There Are No Fights To Fight
Ups and downs mean that you are alive and there is life in you; a straight line, uniformity depicts d.e.a.t.h. When they stop caring about you and everything related to you, they stop objecting to things and agree to everything you have to say or do. It might feel good for sometime but it just no good living with someone who stops noticing you and answers affirmative to every question of yours.
3. It Is Always You
It is not a good thing to always be the first one when it comes to making a move. When they stop caring about you and the relationship, you will feel like you are the only one trying to keep steady contact and there would be no relationship it you stop initiating everything. One can only clap with two hands; going for a hi-five and getting no response really hurts
4. He/she Doesn’t Even Try Anymore
When in a relationship, we work on ourselves for ourselves and our partners. We make an effort to look good and be a better person for them; when that stops happening in a relationship, it means that they see no point in trying. They are always seen in the sweatpants and don’t even bother dressing up nicely to be seen with you at a social event.
5. Your Mistakes Are Not Cute Anymore
Even if it has not been that long since you two hooked up and they start getting annoyed by the little things you do which they formerly found cute, it is a sign that they don’t care anymore. The same schedule you followed and the same habits you had are now met with different reactions that are not very pleasant. In short, your mistakes are not cute anymore.
6. You Don’t Know The Details Anymore
You will realize one day how they don’t talk to you about their day anymore and how there are no gossip hours spent with them. They will seem to grow apart eventually even when they live with you and nothing you say or ask will change their behavior. It will painfully hit you one day that you are the same listener you were but there is nothing to listen to anymore.
7. Less Sleeping Together
If they are not interested as much as they used to be, they will either find reasons to not sleep with you or the s*x won’t be the same. Emotions will start to vanish and it won’t feel like love-making; cuddling won’t be as comfortable and number of kisses per day will be reduced. When there is no connection between two people left, it is difficult to feel any forcefully.
8. Not Jealous Anymore
They won’t even look now when you make small talk with the cashier when the same guy/girl made them super jealous just weeks ago. Whatever you do is not their business anymore, as if they have logged out of their account and the ads to log back in again are only annoying them.