What αffαirs are really about? Do they happen only in unhappy relationships? In that case, why are most of us have guilty of some kind of chєαting? Why do committed partners chєαt even in seemingly happy relationships? Why do they feel like straying away even when they are loved and cared for?
In this article, we will take a closer look at what makes happy people chєαt
1. Because sometimes it’s better that ѕєχ
When it comes to ѕєχ, people have different tastes , but those interests are rarely realized in committed relationships. Extreme fetishes are less likely to surface when two people are completely happy with the way things are going in their relationship. Happy people will chєαt to try new things, but it doesn’t mean that they want to get rid of their current relationship.
2. Because it’s fun
A happy relationship can sometimes become monotonous. Happy doesn’t equate to boring, but the line starts to get blurry when you stay with someone long enough without anything new happening.
3. Because they don’t know what they want
The chєαt doesn’t have clarity about what he/she wants. Some days they wake up next to you feeling happy and thankful, but other days, they spend their entire time daydreaming about how awesome things would be if they were single. People who have the proclivity to betray their partner will often feel trapped in their relationship even if it’s a happy one. They will go off wanting to try something new and different a.k.a chєαting.
4. Because they think ѕєχual infidelity doesn’t mean they don’t love you
For a chєαt, ѕєχual loyalty and love don’t go hand in hand. They have ventured to confidently separate and detach s3xual infidelity from love. They would think something along the line of “if I slept with so and so person, it doesn’t mean I don’t love you” “sure I’m having ѕєχual relations with another person but I’m coming back to you every single time, hence, I love you. Problem solved”. If confronted about it, they will tell you they’re “just” having ѕєχ. But they’re heart really only belongs to you.
5. Because of new romance
Although happy relationships are still brimming with romance, if someone comes along and makes you feel hotter and more passionate than the way you do with your current partner, chєαting suddenly becomes an option.
6. Because the chєαt wants to be sure they are with the right person
Your partner might be sure they are happy being in a relationship, rather than playing the field, but if they are romantically inexperienced, they may wonder whether they are with the right person.
Romanticism would have us believe there’s one ideal partner out there who will meet all our needs to the point when we’d never as much as look at another person
The reality is there’s no such thing as the perfect partner or the perfect relationship, the idea of perfection is nothing more than that – an idea.
