How To Bring Out The Best In Your Husband And Make Him Love You More Than Ever
1. Be his biggest ENCOURAGER; not his biggest critic.
The tone of your words to him can shape how he sees himself. Be a cheerleader for all he’s doing right and not just a criticizer of all he’s doing wrong. Your encouragement has the power to fuel his passions and give him the courage he didn’t know he had to reach new heights. Your criticism can take the wind right out of his sails and make him want to give up hope. I’m not saying you can never point out something he’s doing wrong (spouses need to have candid and sometimes difficult conversations), BUT the overall tone must be one of encouragement. It will bring out the best in him.
2. Show appreciation
Always notice your partner’s qualities and show your appreciation when they do something that makes you and them happy. Tell them how proud you are of them, thank them when they do something nice for you and encourage them every time they pursue one of their dreams.
3. Be CLEAR and direct with what you need from him and THANK him when he does it.
Don’t rely on your non-verbals to communicate what you’re thinking and feeling. Tell him. Be specific and direct, but do it with a tone of appreciation for his efforts.. If there’s something you need from him, tell him clearly and then encourage him as he’s doing it and thank him when he completes it. Your clarity in communication combined with your gratitude for him while he’s doing it will keep him motivated to keep being at his best for you. If he feels like your needs or desires are always unspoken, unclear or unappreciated, he’ll lose hope. Clarity will help bring out his best.
4. Empathize
The most wonderful way to bring out the best in your partner is by placing yourself in their shoes and by experiencing life through their eyes. This way, when you empathize with your partner, you feel different situations the same way they do and they will feel respected and understood. This will help build trust in your relationship and it will also strengthen your bond.
If you want to bring out the best in your loved one, then you should always try to be the best you can be as well. Do what makes you happy and focus on the positive things in life. Do you know any other ways to bring out the best in your partner? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!
5. Initiate ѕєχ.
ѕєχ is probably your husband’s most significant need both emotionally and physically. If he’s like the majority of men, he’s likely to rate the health of the marriage in large part on the frequency of your lovє-making. When you initiate sєx, it is a huge boost to his confidence. When he’s consistently denied ѕєχ, it might become the greatest source of discouragement to him.
6. Take a genuine interest in his interests.
Your husband wants you to be his best friend. He wants to share experiences and adventures with you. He wants to be able to connect with you. Even if his interests or hobbies seem opposite of yours, when you take a genuine interest in his favourite sports team or activity, it will provide another way of connecting with him. He will also be more likely to want to connect with you in your hobbies or interests.
7. Brag about him; don’t nag about him.
Venting about a spouse to friends or online can be toxic. Neurological research has suggested that venting, nagging or complaining can rewire our thought process towards more negativity. In other words, negative thoughts and negative talk lead to more negativity. It does NOT lead to solutions. Even if your husband isn’t there to hear what you’re saying, it will eventually have a negative impact on your marriage. Respect your spouse at all times by how do you talk to him AND by how you talk about him.
8. Never give up on him!
If he knows you believe in him and you’ll be with him to the end, no matter what, he will feel like he can conquer the world. If he feels like your loyalty is fickle or based on his performance, he might always lack the confidence and courage he needs. Reaffirm your commitment to him often. Tell him often how much you love him and how much you believe in him. Your words and your actions have the power to make him a better man and a better husband.
Sources: love.allwomenstalk.com, elitethrive.com
