People who like a quiet life just watch and listen to other people talking, stay away from the hustle and bustle, enjoy quiet relaxation and lead the life they want.
No longer care about other people’s thoughts and opinions
When we are young, we always have a strong desire to express ourselves and like to share what we see and achieve with friends. Sometimes it’s a comment on a current event or posting interesting stories or pictures to make memories and express yourself.
Whether it’s personal expression or expressing personal emotions, to some extent, it’s all about finding resonance. Subconsciously, many people hope for outside attention, for someone to interact with and agree with their ideas.
There are many young people who see themselves as self-centered and different, and they desperately long to be understood. But as age increases, each person’s psychology will gradually mature, and extroversion will gradually decrease. They gradually realize that they are not the center, see themselves as small and that there are very few things they can change.
When they haven’t posted on social networks for a long time, they gradually understand that life is their own and does not need the approval of others.
They no longer want to share their lives, no longer want to seek approval.
Life is full, busy, no time to post on social networks
A depressed patient described his life before recovery on social networks. At that time, their depression became more and more severe to the point that they could not go to work but could only stay at home, often having mental breakdowns.
She lived in pain every day and could not express her sadness among her friends to relieve negative emotions. After such a long time, her depression did not improve at all, but became even worse.
It wasn’t until she followed her doctor’s advice, got treatment, and started painting that things improved. She no longer expressed regret among her friends but spent more time learning to draw, constantly improving her skills and finding a suitable job.
Except for energetic people, most people who are busy with their careers don’t have time to pay attention to social networks.
Preferring a noiseless life
Each person has their own personality, some people like a vibrant, noisy environment, some people like a life as quiet as water. You can tell that whether in your circle of friends or in different groups, there are always people who talk often, and there are people who don’t talk at all.
People who like excitement often share with others, feel a sense of belonging and feel happy in a vibrant atmosphere.
People who like a quiet life just watch and listen to other people talking, stay away from the hustle and bustle, enjoy quiet relaxation and live the life they like.
What you think is interesting may not make any impression on others because they do not have the same opinion and frequency as you. People have different opinions and it is difficult to integrate. It is better to enjoy precious quiet moments, for yourself, in some ways, it is also a rare happiness.
