Relationships are great. You have someone you can be completely yourself with. And you can have the most random conversations with your man without worrying about being judged. But sometimes, it is better to filter some things you ask your man. Find out what conversations you should stray away from.
1. How much do you love me?
Seeking reassurance once in a while is a good thing. But make sure you don’t catch a habit of it. It’s unhealthy for your relationship. He might feel like he isn’t doing enough to make his emotions be felt.
2. Matters related to his masturbation
No matter how close two people are, there is a certain space that should be maintained in a healthy relationship. Matters of his masturbation are totally his. You shouldn’t question him regarding it.
3. Is it inside?
It’s true that exchanging words while in bed can be a huge turn on, but the wrong ones can absolutely ruin your partner’s mood. Asking questions like “is it inside?” can put him in a pressure to hurry. Instead of doing that, direct him.
4. Do you remember all the dates?
We all know that you need to be exceptionally lucky to have a man who remembers all the dates. It’s just how it is with them. So don’t shame him for not remembering the date of your first kiss.
5. What can you sacrifice for me?
If he loves you, you won’t have to ask him what he can sacrifice for you. When the time comes, he’ll prioritize and you’ll get your answer. While being in the relationship, don’t make him think like he’ll have to choose between himself and you.
6. What are the changes you want to see in me?
That’s a pretty weird question to ask. They love you for who you are. If you want to change, do it only because you want to update yourself internally and externally. Asking them about what changes they want to see in you is like creating your own future crisis.
7. Will you love someone after me?
Well, none of us can answer this since none of us have seen the future. This question will make him think about things and that’s bad. Men are pretty rational beings. He knows that life doesn’t stop.
8. How many women have you slept with?
Honestly, how does that even matter, as long as he isn’t committing infidelity while being with you? These questions are bound to weaken your bond. Nobody likes to think about the past.
9. Me or your best friend?
We’ve all been in this situation and trust me, it’s helpless and painful. Both these relationships have their own special spot in life and nobody can take the others’ position.
10. Are your parents going to live with us?
That’s a rude question to ask because come on, it’s his parents! They’ll stay if they want to.
Sources: femina.in, dailypositiveinfo.com
