The wrong relationships are the things that make you unhappy. Of course, it’s easy to get in touch – charming words, romantic dates, extravagant gifts, and more can all look very attractive.
Of course, everything might look nice and pink at first, but sooner or later the original colors will appear. When red flags are seen, they are usually ignored as this is a one-time situation. But over time, those red flags usually turn into serious problems wreaking havoc on something that started off perfectly.
No man is perfect. However, ignoring these signs can further damage the relationship and lead to heart attacks and pain in the long run. Male or female, here are six types of people who refrain from leaving the house to avoid heartache and pain.
1. Never date somebody who hasn’t healed from their past
Getting into a relationship with this person might leave you devastated for they might end up comparing you to the person in their past. This will do more damage than good since they fail to recognise that you are not and cannot be that person.
2. Never date a person who is unclear
Whether it comes to feelings, emotions, attachments, their past, or anything else, good relationships need clarity to set a strong foundation. Statements like “let’s go with the flow,” not putting a label on what you are, ignoring your questions about their past, etc. are all red flags to watch out for.
3. Never date somebody who doesn’t meet their own expectations
It is very easy to make things sound rosy and create a web of dreams and lies. But when it is time to act, there are only excuses and absolutely no effort.
4. Never date somebody who is self obsessed
It is easy to spot somebody who is self obsessed – they only care about telling you their problems and need somebody to listen to them. When it comes to them listening or helping out, they vanish, tune out or just don’t care.
5. Never date a person who never accepts their mistake
Taking the blame, owning up, showing up are all signs of a decent human being. Instead, passing the baton, making excuses for not showing up, not taking blame, etc. are all things that will come and bite you later on.
6. Never date a person who is never around
You have to wait for hours together to get a text or a call back. They are selfish and only get in touch when they want you or miss you. Forget making you feel special and loved, they are not there even when you need them the most!
Sources: gh.opera.news/gh,
