According to many studies, intense love and passion when a couple is together, last no more than two to four years. Does this mean that after this time the relationship breaks down? In contrast, it may turn out to be even more satisfying, give support and sense of security, change into mature love provided, nevertheless, that the partners manage to create a friendly relationship and, at the same time, to keep their separateness.
Love has no judgments, agenda, bias or fanaticism. Love does not have a specific definition. Leave personal barriers and inhibitions. Relationships require work, but it is more like a rhythmic dance of grace and lightness. Unfortunately, it is not always a pleasant dance and the bond can be broken disastrously. Those are the moments in which we ask… What happened? Then we leave you with the 8 things felt by the women when the flame of their passion for a man has gone out…
1. Valuation
When you meet him or you wake up together you do not feel blessed, you simply note as if it were a 𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕗-𝕚𝕞𝕡𝕠𝕤𝕖𝕕 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕞𝕟𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 of which you do not know how to detach yourself. As if you had not yet woken up from a bad dream, you ᴘʀᴀʏ that this situation will not continue. If you follow him wanting you would like to wake up with him eternally and you would cover him with affection. The same circumstance can be a blessing or a curse depending on the individual.
2. Hopes in solitude
You have taken it away from your mind, that boy you dreamed about no longer appears in your plans. Every time you meditate on the long-term goals, the places you want to visit and ultimately the life you want to have, he is no longer there. Your intuition tells you that the relationship will not last much longer because he has not shown you the necessary affection and your illusion has gradually faded…
3. Meals
Everything that once made you happy with your partner begins to have the opposite effect. This is how it also happens with dinners, lunches, and appointments in restaurants. Before, it did not matter if you were in a fast food franchise, if you cooked pasta or if you went to a distinguished place, sharing romantic moments was the most important and satisfying. Now everything has a snag, and boredom takes control…
4. Absence
The truth is that this man has disappeared from your mind, as we mentioned in the first point. Another indication that you do not want is that when you leave the house or spend a distant time, you do not miss him or think about being with him. On the contrary, you have a better time when he is not present and you fear his arrival because every time he enjoys less with your company. Do you find it familiar?
5. You realize you’re happy when he’s not around.
The moment when you realize you’re happy without him and you feel better in his absence is a decisive one. Another strong sign you don’t love him anymore.
6. You wake up and don’t even look at him.
When you love somebody, you’re always happy waking up next to him, being able to kiss and hug him. You feel thankful for another day together. But when you stop doing so, it means he’s not meant to be next to you anymore.
7. When he’s at home but you’d rather be alone.
If you get at this point, you know the answer. When you feel better alone and his presence at home is just bothering you, then you have to do something in regards to this.
8. Goodbyes
In the same way that we commented on the absences section, when you start this process you are equally indifferent. Saying goodbye does not mean anything to you, perhaps more positive something, even a relief, a truce with which to rest from him. This is not how it should be. And that’s it for today. We hope these several examples of what women feel when they stop loving a man are informative to you. Do you agree with these 8 points?
References: home-tricks.info, dazzling.news
